Thursday the 24th of September saw us take on our second Friends League opponent, Abington. After a hard loss to Shipley I simply challenged our squad to take the game 5 minutes at a time. We started well for the first 15 minutes, playing a hard-nose brand of soccer and kept the game scoreless. At one point our defense was broken down by indecision and the visitors had gone up 1- 0. About 10 minutes later, Sam Winward put a thru-ball behind the defensive live where Ben Holl was first to it, and slid the shot underneath the advancing keeper. We had scored a goal in Friends league competition! What a relief. The first half ended with a well placed cross and header from Abington Friends, 30 seconds from time. Needless to say that was very tough to take going into the break and may have exhausted the wind from our sails. The second half saw AFS score one more to make the final 3 - 1. Overall I was pleased with our boys effort and play even in defeat.
Saturday 9/26/09 @ Germantown Friends
We arrived at GFS early Saturday morning to celebrate 100 years of soccer between Friends Select, Germantown Friends and Moorestown Friends. The ceremony was very nice and a big shout goes out to former groundskeeper, Joe Peakock (who is a very good friend and even better soccer mind), and newly hired groundskeeper, Charlie Langrebe (who I had not seen for 15 years but was my neighbor back in Lawncrest). This would be where a celebration of any brand on our part would cease to exist.
I pride myself on having a hybrid of optimism and realism when it comes to school of thought, however I don't think even an idealist could have taken many positives out of the result. We were thrashed by a very talented Germantown Friends squad, 9 - 0. It hurts me to even type this ridiculous series of digits with soccer in mind. I thought we played very tentative and on the back foot, which only fueled our opponents forward.
I do however, wish to thank my players for remaining Respectful in lieu the situation at hand. I have seen many instances when sportsmanship may have been thrown to the wind and I am pleased to coach a group of young men that think before they act.
After the game I was speechless, perhaps from a number or variables. I spent many hours that night and the rest of the weekend in deep thought, hoping for revelation. The only reality is that we have to put it behind us and keep moving forward if possible. At the very least I know some of our players will use this horrid experience as fuel for the fire, when they encounter adversity in soccer and in life. Never forget what it feels like to lose a competition in this manner. Bottle it and uncap it when you need something extra to finish a task at hand.
Yours in soccer
Coach Denny Smyth