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Alumni Spotlight: Alyssa Spiller '16

As we look forward to Alumni Weekend, we are proud to highlight Friends Select alumni! 

 

 

 

 

On the evening of October 5th, Friends Select freshmen gathered for Convocation, a tradition marking the start of their upper school journey. Alyssa Spiller '16 returned to Friends Select to share her wisdom and reflect on what her time at FSS has meant to her.

"When I was in 9th grade at FSS, coming in as a non-lifer, I never imagined that I would be standing here a decade after graduating, reflecting on those years and trying to explain what they meant to me."

After graduation, Alyssa studied bioengineering at Lehigh University, leading to a role as a clinical research coordinator at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia in the Division of Ophthalmology. Being involved in research at CHOP helped grow her interest in medicine. Over the summer, she started a post-baccalaureate program at the University of Pennsylvania in order to apply to medical school.

She reflects back to her 9th grade self: "I remember thinking I needed to know exactly who I was and what I wanted to do. I thought everyone else somehow had a plan, and I was the only one figuring it out as I went."

Her message to students now, 10 years later, is simple yet profound.

"You don't have to have it all figured out. Your job is to learn. To try things. To meet people. To make mistakes. To discover what you care about. And perhaps most importantly, to discover what kind of person you want to be."

As Alyssa continues her own journey to medical school, she carries with her what she learned both inside and outside the classroom at Friends Select.

"That's one of the things I appreciate most about FSS. School is obviously a place where you learn information. But a great school does something more. It gives you experiences that shape how you interact with the world. For me, FSS taught me that relationships matter."

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A Transformative Partnership

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Michael Gary Speaks: Spring 2026

This year will mark my decade of service as head of Friends Select School. 

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Learning Beyond the Classroom

Upper school students at Friends Select School know firsthand that learning is not confined to the classroom.

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Record Number of Falcons Pursuing Collegiate Athletics

The class of 2025 represents a milestone year for the athletics program at Friends Select School, with a record number of students pursuing collegiate sports.

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Dr. Catherine Murray Joins Friends Select as Director of Upper School

Dr. Catherine Murray will join Friends Select as the new director of upper school, beginning in the 2026-27 academic year.

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Michael Gary Named Board Chair of Reading Allowed

Friends Select head of school Michael Gary was recently named chair of the board of directors of Reading Allowed, a Philadelphia-based nonprofit organization dedicated to expanding and ensuring access to structured literacy support services for all learners.

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Caring for our Community: In Conversation with Recently Hired Coaches

In this continuation of our Select News series, we highlight some of the outstanding coaches who have recently joined Friends Select and have shared their perspectives on our athletics program and our school.

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Unveiling the Parkway Campus Expansion Project

Friends Select upper and middle school students, along with employees, returned from winter break to ribbon-cutting ceremonies for the Parkway Campus Expansion Project.

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Above Board: Spring 2026

10 years! As you can see throughout this issue of Select News, the past decade has been an exciting time for the Friends Select community.

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From the Archives: Celebrating the 50th Anniversary of the Classic

The Alumni Thanksgiving Classic has become one of Friends Select School’s most cherished traditions, bridging generations of alumni, current students, families, and employees.

 

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