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Michael Gary Speaks: Fall 2025

As I reflect on a new school year at Friends Select,

 

I’m struck by a fundamental truth that guides our educational philosophy: learning should be joyful, purposeful, and deeply engaging.

When I am asked what it is we teach at Friends Select, I distill my response to agency and voice, from pre-K to 12th grade.

These aspects of a Quaker education may show up differently in lower, middle, and upper school, but they are the heartbeat of our educational approach in all three divisions. Friends Select students aren’t passive recipients of information; they are active participants in their own learning journey. 
    
Student leadership, voice, and agency are visible both inside and outside the classroom. For example, in Helping Hands, our upper school student-led service club, students are empowered to pair their interests with meaningful volunteer opportunities. Likewise, the recently published Algebra in Context textbook—created by Friends Select’s math department chair and middle school math teacher, Satoia Wright, in collaboration with students—demonstrates how learning and student voice intersect.
    
Our faculty are providing academic challenges while fostering agency, encouraging critical thinking, and helping students find their unique voices. It is the dedication of our educators that influences every aspect of the Friends Select experience. From ensuring both joy and rigor are present in their curricula to supporting student growth beyond the classroom, our educators model a lifelong love of learning that we aim to instill in our young learners. Friends Select remains committed to supporting our faculty with professional development, continuing education opportunities, and wellness initiatives. Caring for those who nurture our students benefits our entire community.

Above all, Friends Select continues to adhere to its Quaker values: respect for all, simplicity, the peaceful resolution of conflict, and a constant search for truth. We continue to prioritize inclusivity, helping to ensure that all members of our community feel safe and a sense of belonging at Friends Select. We pride ourselves on being a Quaker community that welcomes and supports members of all religious faiths, races, gender identities, socio-economic backgrounds, and nationalities. 

From lower to upper school, we’re creating environments that support individual growth while maintaining our core values. Our academic programming and our daily interactions are designed to support each student’s educational journey through their years at Friends Select and for “the whole of life.”

Wed, 03 Jun 2026

A Transformative Partnership

Friends Select School recently received a $1.7 million multi-year grant from The Children’s Education Initiative (TCEI), a San Diego-based nonprofit organization dedicated to improving the quality of education for socioeconomically disadvantaged children.

Wed, 03 Jun 2026

Michael Gary Speaks: Spring 2026

This year will mark my decade of service as head of Friends Select School. 

Wed, 03 Jun 2026

Learning Beyond the Classroom

Upper school students at Friends Select School know firsthand that learning is not confined to the classroom.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Record Number of Falcons Pursuing Collegiate Athletics

The class of 2025 represents a milestone year for the athletics program at Friends Select School, with a record number of students pursuing collegiate sports.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Dr. Catherine Murray Joins Friends Select as Director of Upper School

Dr. Catherine Murray will join Friends Select as the new director of upper school, beginning in the 2026-27 academic year.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Michael Gary Named Board Chair of Reading Allowed

Friends Select head of school Michael Gary was recently named chair of the board of directors of Reading Allowed, a Philadelphia-based nonprofit organization dedicated to expanding and ensuring access to structured literacy support services for all learners.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Caring for our Community: In Conversation with Recently Hired Coaches

In this continuation of our Select News series, we highlight some of the outstanding coaches who have recently joined Friends Select and have shared their perspectives on our athletics program and our school.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Unveiling the Parkway Campus Expansion Project

Friends Select upper and middle school students, along with employees, returned from winter break to ribbon-cutting ceremonies for the Parkway Campus Expansion Project.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

Above Board: Spring 2026

10 years! As you can see throughout this issue of Select News, the past decade has been an exciting time for the Friends Select community.

Tue, 02 Jun 2026

From the Archives: Celebrating the 50th Anniversary of the Classic

The Alumni Thanksgiving Classic has become one of Friends Select School’s most cherished traditions, bridging generations of alumni, current students, families, and employees.

 

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