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Michael Gary Speaks

Our mission as a Quaker school is clear.

 

We—employees and trustees, with the support of alumni, parents, and caregivers—fulfill it together: learning should be placed at the service of society, and we seek to teach students to walk joyfully over the world. 


Watching and reading the news about boards of education at various levels throughout the United States purposefully censoring books and altering curricula to fit their political ideology, I am grateful to be an educator at Friends Select School.

 

Our mission as a Quaker school is clear, and we—employees and trustees, with the support of alumni, parents, and caregivers—fulfill it together: learning should be placed at the service of society, and we seek to teach students to walk joyfully over the world. 

Instead of excluding, we are discussing ways to be more inclusive at Friends Select so that more of us can be seen in the curriculum that we wholeheartedly drive. For example, offerings like the upper school Visiting Writer Program exist to honor the arts and culture of our city as well as expose students to the breadth and depth 
of perspectives and talents of Philadelphia-based writers. And our commitment extends beyond the classroom, as evidenced by student-led initiatives like our voter registration drive at last year’s Shackamaxon Powwow at Penn Treaty Park, and the participation of upper school students on the mayor’s African American Historic Statue Advisory Committee.

Friends Select continues to distinguish itself through a continued commitment to becoming an antiracist institution and fostering an inclusive learning environment. The recent People of Color Conference (PoCC) in St. Louis, MO, showcased our school’s dedication to diversity and inclusion. With one of the largest contingents in attendance, our colleagues not only participated but also led sessions, exemplifying our commitment to driving positive change in education.

We envision Friends Select as a private school with a public purpose and strive to extend our reach to students in the Philadelphia area who could benefit from our resources. Our new Community Pantry reflects our Quaker values, our ongoing efforts 
to become an antiracist school, and our responsibility to the city of Philadelphia. And through our new summer camp partner this year, ESF Camps, we can enable more young learners to benefit from the rich experiences 
our community offers. 

The Friends Select community has also not wavered in a commitment to supporting one another. From significant salary increases to an elevated focus on wellness, we are mindful of the human aspect that forms the foundation of our school. Taking care of each other is of utmost importance and parallels our mission. 

Friends Select remains dedicated to nurturing minds, building community, and providing an educational experience that shapes a brighter future for our students and society. Just thinking about this energizes me, and I hope it does the same for you. What we show up to do every day is more relevant and important than ever. 
 

 

 

 

 

Mon, 09 Feb 2026

Philadelphia City Council Recognizes Friends Select Social Justice Week

Friends Select was honored during a recent Philadelphia City Council session at City Hall, in which a resolution was passed recognizing January 20-23 as Social Justice Week. 

Tue, 13 Jan 2026

Joyful Learning

Friends Select School is creating a learning environment in which academic challenges and intellectual curiosity thrive alongside joy in learning. 

Mon, 12 Jan 2026

Math Department Chair Satoia Wright Publishes a Textbook

With her recently released algebra curriculum textbook, Friends Select’s math department chair and middle school math teacher, Satoia Wright, is sharing her passion and expertise to make math programming accessible.

Sun, 11 Jan 2026

Michael Gary Speaks: Fall 2025

As I reflect on a new school year at Friends Select, I’m struck by a fundamental truth that guides our educational philosophy: learning should be joyful, purposeful, and deeply engaging.

Wed, 07 Jan 2026

In Good Hands with Helping Hands

Aligned with Friends Select’s Quaker values of placing learning at the service of society, the Helping Hands club is engaging upper school students in meaningful community service opportunities across various sectors. 

Tue, 06 Jan 2026

Caring for Our Community: In Conversation with Recently Hired Employees

In this continuation of our Select News series, we highlight some of the outstanding employees who have recently joined Friends Select and have shared their perspectives on our school.

Mon, 05 Jan 2026

Above Board: It Feels Like Purpose

A deep sense of purpose—palpable both at the board level and among Friends Select’s students, families, faculty, and staff—drew me to join the board in the first place and then say “yes” when Ingrid Lakey ’89, P’27 was ready to pass the torch of clerkship. 

Sun, 04 Jan 2026

Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s Legacy Before the Creation of a Federal Holiday

Thanks to the advocacy of students, Friends Select’s history of honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. predates the creation of a federal holiday.

Thu, 01 Jan 2026

Giving Back: Sam Spear ’71

As members of the Dick Hoffman Circle of longtime donors, Sam Spear ’71 and his wife Rosanne exemplify the many ways donors can support the school, from contributions to the Friends Select Fund and gifts made through the Pennsylvania State Tax Credit Program to leadership-level gifts as part of the Benefactors Society.

Tue, 30 Dec 2025

Giving Back: The Deepe-Boccitto Family

The Deepe-Boccitto Fund was established by Bonnie Boccitto GP'33 to honor her mother, Bernice Deepe, who passed away in 2022 on her 97th birthday.

 

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