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What I love about this work is that it boils down to stewardship.

 

This is true of all boards but as a Quaker school, this is not just a fiduciary matter; it is also a spiritual one. Stewardship is one of the Quaker testimonies. 

 


I have been the head of Friends Select’s board of trustees for three years, during which time I have learned so much about our school, independent schools in general, and boards. 

 

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Ingrid Lakey '89, P'27, Board of Trustees Clerk

 

What I love about this work is that it boils down to stewardship. This is true of all boards but as a Quaker school, this is not just a fiduciary matter; it is also a spiritual one. Stewardship is one of the Quaker testimonies. 

We must be faithful stewards of Friends Select’s resources to support our community, both as it is today and for future generations of students, faculty, and staff. While this certainly applies to budgeting responsibly, we also have to ask if we are being good environmental stewards. How are we implicated in the forces leading to climate change? 

A few years ago, as Friends Select’s board and administration were working on plans to improve and expand our campus in keeping with our strategic plan, Advance Friends Select, several of us asked how we could incorporate environmental sustainability into these plans. We were not alone in our concerns about climate change. An eleventh grader named Corey Becker ’22, one of the leaders of the upper school Environmentalism Club, gave an outstanding presentation to the board’s Property Committee about ways we could take on one of the most pressing issues of our time. Corey challenged us to live up to our values to be an environmentally responsible institution. 

Corey’s presentation was inspiring and was a clear example of excellence in teaching and learning at FSS: nurturing and developing student voice and agency. His presentation added energy to our work as a board. Instead of individual decision points for sustainability in the work ahead, we could see this was a wider concern in our community and needed to be an expression of our values. 

As we prepared for the transformation of the first floor of the Parkway Building, we hired a construction management company for whom environmental sustainability was a priority. Anchor Management Group brought this lens to demolition (including recycling and reuse to divert materials from the landfill as much as possible) and construction (including responsible sourcing of materials and energy efficiency). This commitment continued in resurfacing the roof and the massive renovation project resulting in the upper school STEAM Building. 

But Corey didn’t just leave it there. During his senior year, he went on to create a Sustainability Committee that included participants from every sector of the school: faculty, staff, students, parents, and me as the board clerk. Corey graduated Friends Select in 2022 and despite heading off to Harvard University, he still manages to stay engaged with our work.

As we have been putting this testimony of stewardship into practice with our building projects, and as the Sustainability Committee is doing a deep dive into all aspects of our school’s environmental impact, it has become clear that it is time to update Advance Friends Select by weaving environmental sustainability into the strategic direction of the school. Quakerism’s forefather, George Fox, called on us all to “Walk cheerfully over the earth answering to that of God in everyone.” To do that, we must commit to walk gently over the earth too.  
 

 

 

Mon, 09 Feb 2026

Philadelphia City Council Recognizes Friends Select Social Justice Week

Friends Select was honored during a recent Philadelphia City Council session at City Hall, in which a resolution was passed recognizing January 20-23 as Social Justice Week. 

Tue, 13 Jan 2026

Joyful Learning

Friends Select School is creating a learning environment in which academic challenges and intellectual curiosity thrive alongside joy in learning. 

Mon, 12 Jan 2026

Math Department Chair Satoia Wright Publishes a Textbook

With her recently released algebra curriculum textbook, Friends Select’s math department chair and middle school math teacher, Satoia Wright, is sharing her passion and expertise to make math programming accessible.

Sun, 11 Jan 2026

Michael Gary Speaks: Fall 2025

As I reflect on a new school year at Friends Select, I’m struck by a fundamental truth that guides our educational philosophy: learning should be joyful, purposeful, and deeply engaging.

Wed, 07 Jan 2026

In Good Hands with Helping Hands

Aligned with Friends Select’s Quaker values of placing learning at the service of society, the Helping Hands club is engaging upper school students in meaningful community service opportunities across various sectors. 

Tue, 06 Jan 2026

Caring for Our Community: In Conversation with Recently Hired Employees

In this continuation of our Select News series, we highlight some of the outstanding employees who have recently joined Friends Select and have shared their perspectives on our school.

Mon, 05 Jan 2026

Above Board: It Feels Like Purpose

A deep sense of purpose—palpable both at the board level and among Friends Select’s students, families, faculty, and staff—drew me to join the board in the first place and then say “yes” when Ingrid Lakey ’89, P’27 was ready to pass the torch of clerkship. 

Sun, 04 Jan 2026

Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s Legacy Before the Creation of a Federal Holiday

Thanks to the advocacy of students, Friends Select’s history of honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. predates the creation of a federal holiday.

Thu, 01 Jan 2026

Giving Back: Sam Spear ’71

As members of the Dick Hoffman Circle of longtime donors, Sam Spear ’71 and his wife Rosanne exemplify the many ways donors can support the school, from contributions to the Friends Select Fund and gifts made through the Pennsylvania State Tax Credit Program to leadership-level gifts as part of the Benefactors Society.

Tue, 30 Dec 2025

Giving Back: The Deepe-Boccitto Family

The Deepe-Boccitto Fund was established by Bonnie Boccitto GP'33 to honor her mother, Bernice Deepe, who passed away in 2022 on her 97th birthday.

 

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